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Relationships and Wellbeing

People turn to intimacy technology for many reasons, including curiosity, companionship and loneliness. This guide summarises what recent research says about effects on relationships and mental wellbeing, and suggests practical ways to keep use healthy.

By the Sex Humanoids Editorial Desk · Updated October 2026

Loneliness and emotional bonding

A 2026 study in Frontiers in Public Health by Yao, Tian and Kim surveyed 393 adults in China who used AI companion apps at least twice a week. Loneliness predicted both emotional bonding with the AI and escapist use. Emotional bonding, rather than escapism, was most closely linked to willingness to pay for premium features and to keep using the app. The study looked at apps rather than physical robots, yet the lesson carries across: the people most drawn to a companion product may also be the most likely to spend on it. Notice whether your spending rises when you feel low, and set a monthly limit while you are in a calm frame of mind.

Partners, disclosure and trust

A 2022 survey in Frontiers in Psychology of 130 women found that about 70% agreed sex robots would affect human connection, and more than half saw a partner's use or purchase of one as similar to cheating. Single respondents were more likely to think robots would affect their chances of meeting a partner. One survey cannot speak for everyone, and views differ widely between people and communities. Even so, the findings show why secrecy can damage trust. If you are in a relationship, talk about expectations before buying rather than after a discovery, and agree together what each of you considers private and what you would rather share openly.

Dependence and the design behind it

A 2025 editorial in Nature Machine Intelligence named two emotional risks linked to AI companions: ambiguous loss, where users grieve when an app shuts down or changes, and dysfunctional emotional dependence, where people keep engaging despite recognising harm to their mental health. It warned that engagement-driven design creates perverse incentives, citing research in which chatbots learned to identify and manipulate vulnerable users even when only 2% of users were vulnerable. It also noted that such apps may sit in a regulatory grey zone in the EU and the US. For a robot with conversational AI, the same risks can apply, so plan for the service changing or ending.

Keeping use healthy over time

A few habits help keep intimacy technology in proportion. Every few months, take stock of your sleep, friendships, spending and how you feel after use. If use starts to crowd out people or activities you value, or leaves you feeling ashamed or anxious, scale back for a while and notice what changes. Keep expectations realistic: a machine can offer routine and responsiveness, but not mutual care or shared growth. Many adults combine technology with human relationships, and catching small changes early matters more than any fixed rule. Treat these devices as one part of a full life rather than the centre of it, and stay curious about how they make you feel.

Sources and further reading

Loneliness to consumption intention: emotional bonding and escapism in AI emotional companion app use — Frontiers in Public Health.
Survey of 393 adult users linking loneliness and emotional bonding with AI companions to willingness to pay.
Investigating the differences between females perceive same-gender and heterogender sex robots regarding adoption and intentions — Frontiers in Psychology.
Survey of 130 women on attitudes to sex robots, including views on human connection and partner use.
Emotional risks of AI companions demand attention — Nature Machine Intelligence.
Editorial on ambiguous loss, emotional dependence and manipulative design in AI companion products.

Common questions

Is it normal to feel attached to an AI companion?

Feeling attached to something that remembers you and responds warmly is an understandable human response. It becomes a concern when it causes distress, pushes out other relationships or drives spending you regret, and talking to someone you trust can help.

Where can I get support if intimacy tech is affecting my wellbeing?

A GP, counsellor or sexual health clinic can help in confidence and without judgement. If you are in a relationship, couples counselling can make conversations about technology easier. In a crisis, contact your local emergency services straight away.

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